1) to be master (or head) of a house
2) to rule a household, manage family affairs
Part of Speech: verb
Citing in TDNT: 2:49, 145
From G3617; to be the head of (that is, rule) a family: - guide the house.
|direct a household||46.2|
These two sites give similar information, with the definition from several dictionaries and statistics on the use of the word.
Perseus Digital Library
University of Chicago's Logion lexicon
Thayer's dictionary plus other information.
From this site's dictionary (in Italian)
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